Christina Rowe's Articles

  • Lonely After Divorce? Get A Dog!
    After my divorce was final, I found myself finally dealing with my feelings about the divorce. During the divorce I was consumed with court dates and legal issues and did not have time to mourn the death of my marriage or deal with the many emotions divorce stirs up.

    Working through all of the different emotions and feelings of loss,betrayal, anger and disbelief took many months. One emotion I was surprised to feel was loneliness.

    At first I thought that it meant it wa...
  • Maybe Next Time He'll Think Before He Cheats
    I am sure you have heard the Carrie Underwood song of the same name by now. Most of us who have been cheated on have probably fantasized about keying our ex's car or inflicting some of the damage Carrie sings about in her hit song. As difficult as it may be, you must control your emotions.

    The type of out of control behavior depicted in the song will only end you up in jail with a retraining order issued against you.

    So what can we do to move through the pain and anguis...
  • 9 Tips To Easier Single Parenting
    The reality is being a single mom or dad is a tough job. Trying to juggle the roles of two parents each day can be exhausting, frustrating and overwhelming.

    Getting organized is one way to minimize the amount of work and run a more streamlined, calmer household. Try some of the tips listed below and before you know it you will be less stressed, more focused and able to spend more quality time with your kids!

    • Time your phone calls. How many times have you spent hours c...
  • Five Tips On Working Successfully With Your Divorce Attorney
    Divorce lawyers are expensive. You need to be proactive and know what is going on with your case at all times. Do not be afraid to ask your attorney questions. Too often we will sit back and assume that our attorney will do what's right and we put trust in someone who may or may not have our best interests at heart.

    There are reputable divorce lawyers out there, but you first need to weed out the money hungry ones who will take your retainer, file useless paperwork and dra...
  • Helping Your Children Through Your Divorce
    Dealing with a divorce is difficult for everyone, including the kids. It is a life altering event that can take a toll emotionally and physically . This is especially true for children. Children need additional support during this tough time. They need to know and understand that it is not their fault and that both parents still love them very much.

    You and your soon to be ex are going to have to work hard at putting aside your anger and hard feelings toward each other. I...
  • Keeping Positive During Divorce
    If you are facing a divorce, you may be feeling very depressed and upset. These feelings are very normal. You cannot predict what is going to happen when you get married. Some marriages work and others do not. It is important to understand that this is not the end of the world and things like this happen all the time.

    You are not a bad person because you are getting a divorce. If you and your spouse cannot longer get along, there is no reason to live together in a situatio...
  • Life After Divorce-coping As A Single Parent
    When the ink has dried on your divorce papers, and the dust finally starts to settle, you will find yourself facing an entirely new set of problems. Now you are alone with your responsibilities. The scheduling of your life is different, and probably more difficult.

    If your husband is limited to brief visitation rights, then the day-to-day responsibility for your kids is now completely yours. Even if your spouse has your children part of the time, you will discover that you...
  • The Truth About Dirty Divorce Tactics
    Why does divorce turn ugly? What makes one partner turn on the other? I have often pondered these questions. It amazes me that two people who stood at the altar and vowed to be together until death do us part,can ultimately destroy each other.

    While I was married the thought of a couple going through a vicious divorce made no sense to me. I always thought that when a couple decided to divorce they should simply divide their assets in half and part ways amicably. There was ...
  • The Divorce Blame Game
    We all begin the divorce process convinced that everything is the other spouse’s fault. All of the pain is a direct result of their bad behavior. Your ex is acting in complete disregard for your feelings. If your ex would only behave the divorce would go more smoothly. That you might have a part in this mess doesn’t even occur to you. No, your spouse is to blame. He is one who cheated, lied, and betrayed you. How could you be responsible?

    But when the dust settles you may ...
  • How To Escape An Abusive Husband
    There are many important things you should do if you are an abuse victim preparing to leave your spouse. These include: making copies of important records, papers, and bills; putting these records, some cash, and extra clothes in a safe place or a trusted friend’s house; and leaving when you must. If you can, start your own bank account. Get credit cards in your own name.

    If the threat of physical violence is imminent escape with your children as soon as you can.

    In suc...
  • How A Single Mom Can Get Rich
    There are countless books on how to get rich. We buy them for hope, but the best of them offer us a mindset. If you want to make money you have to think like someone who makes money.

    One book that has really helped me change the way I think about money is Secrets of the Millionaire Mind by T. Harv Eker. This book encourages you to explore what you learned from your parents about money. You learn what your “financial blueprint” is for success. This book taught me a system f...
  • The Secret To A Successful Divorce
    So what is the most crucial secret you need to know to have a successful divorce?

    It is the simplest secret, yet the most difficult one to master: Controlling your emotions!

    I coach many women who just can’t seem to understand and follow this one piece of advice. Usually by the time they come to see me they have made quite a mess of things. I have coached women who have been divorced for years and still can’t control their emotions when it comes to their ex-husband!

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  • The Key To Winning In Divorce Court
    The rule to remember is: Anticipate and prepare. Think about what your opponent (your spouse) wants, and what he or she will do to get it. Consider their possible defenses and offenses, and then do your homework. Find information to counter what they have to say. Look on the Internet, go to the library, and find magazines and books. When you fight back you need to always back yourself up with proof. Anybody can say anything, but having facts in print is imperative.

    All of ...
  • Deciding To Divorce
    The most intense, heart-wrenching decision comes at the start: Should you get divorced? Much has led up to this question, including the notions of separation and divorce. Up to now they have only been thoughts and words, with no immediate consequences. Now that you realize the time to decide has come, you have to contemplate action. The focus on action clarifies the situation, but also makes it seem more difficult and scary.

    Any number of scenarios might lead to the end of...

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